Tuesday, February 17, 2015

Mama's trip to Gatlinburg


The trip to Gatlinburg was quite an event for my 75 year old mother.  First, she had never ridden on an airplane before.  We took the big bird from Dallas to Knoxville and she was pretty cool with it all.  Then we got on a puddle jumper that even I had never ridden before going from Knoxville into Gatlinburg.  It might have had a total of 10 seats.  I mean the legs that held the seats were little round camping chair looking outfits.  There was a curtain where normally the cabin door for the pilot stands.  As we ran down the run way the little beeping sounds came from the cabin and she reached around behind her and grabbed my knee.  I assured her everything was just fine, as I prayed please Lord don’t let us crash.  I had never ridden anything this small and did not know what to expect either.

We arrived and got the rental car and off we went.  Now another curve in the story, pun intended.  The road was switchback curves most of the way. I for one am not good with motion sickness which suddenly overtakes mama too.  Finally we pass this hurdle and we have climbed the mountain and are in the valley where old log cabins, a creek and gorgeous wild flowers surround us.  As we toured mama walked inside the cabin and began to relive her youth.  Her eyes took it all in and she almost caressed the old stove and the other implements of another time, “That was just like the one we had back on the farm”, she would say.  Eddie recalled her walking by the creek and said she was just like a kid. 

Later we climbed up to where some huge flat rocks lay with a cavern behind.  She climbed up and was standing on top like King of the mountain and I was in a panic.  “Mama,” come down before you fall and break something.”  I thought your acting like a kid.  Ah! We have no idea what it is like be 75 when we are 50.  At 75 she could climb those rocks.  At 70 I cannot.  At 70 I ask myself, “Did I spoil that moment for her?”  Experience is the best teacher only sometimes those lessons come late.

Mama had a ball that day.  She was a young girl again at home with her parents in the times she remembered as good.  She was able once more to explore and climb rocks and feel the sun on her face and the wind teased her hair amongst the wild flowers.

Then the return flight home came and the vacation was coming to a close, however, the adventure was not.  The flight was oversold so they offered a $300.00 voucher if some would take a later flight from Knoxville to Dallas.  We had time so we took the offer, but it had to be for all three of us. Mama had already made it clear she did not want to be separated and neither did I.  They called her name and innocently I said OK mama go on we aren’t going to get to stay behind.  I told Eddie to go check this out and he as usual said it will be alright they will call us next and we will go.  We waited and the counter became empty with nobody to ask anything.  Then the final boarding call came.  I grabbed him by the arm and said do something, NOW!  The door to the gateway closed and the plane began to back out of the gate.  There was a big round carpet covered pillar standing there and I hauled off and hit that thing and thought I had broken my hand.  If I opened my mouth now that airport would have to leave.  So I grabbed my cell phone and ran to a corner and called our oldest daughter and finally got her on the line.  I explained mama was coming in on flight so and so, and please get to the airport and be at that gate when she got off that plane. 

 

I don’t know how long that flight was, maybe an hour, but if ever anyone was spending an hour in hell it was me and I wanted to throw one husband a little farther in the flames. 

Robert and Robin got mama and I am not sure she ever forgave Eddie for that and truthfully it took me a long time.  He didn’t do anything on purpose but as always with my passive husband he didn’t hustle and stop the thing either.  Oh the words that could have come from my mouth and my mother’s that day were mercifully never said or known.  I hope that comes under the heading of sin is not sin till it is conceived.  Mama never got on an airplane again and I don’t remember her telling others of her adventures to Gatlinburg, although she may have, but certainly not in front of me and Eddie.

But I know in my heart later after everything settled down she remembered the cabin, the creek and the wild flowers.